The Land of Shoulds and Oughts is run by a Mayor I have never seen. His rules are “you should do this” or “you ought to do that”. But, why, I ask? No one could ever give me an explanation, other than, “because you should.” I searched for the Mayor, to ask him directly, but he was nowhere to be found.
There are lots of inhabitants in the Land of Shoulds and Oughts. They frantically run about to the stores of This and That, buying things that have little to do with their actual lives. I think, do I need this or that? They say, “you should get this. You ought to get that.” But I am becoming more and more aware that the price for such things is too costly.
On my daily jaunts around town, I discovered a quiet little cove on the outskirts of the Land of Shoulds and Oughts. I had heard that this cove was a dangerous place, for the people who often frequented this little cove, were seen less and less in the town. Eventually, they disappeared from the Land of Shoulds and Oughts altoghter.
Therefore, it is widely known that one should not go there.
As I sat in this little cove, alone, my spirit began to settle and then stir within me. Thoughts began to swirl. Thoughts like, “I was made for more than this and that!” “I ought to go back, but I don’t want to leave this peaceful place.” So, I sat.
As I looked around, I saw a piece of paper, tucked under a rock. It was tattered and well worn. Curious, I picked it up and read it. It said, “Look up. Look inward. Look to your left. Look to your right. Choose a direction and go. Find your freedom. Listen for the Voice of the One who has been calling you. If you are reading this note, then that means you are in the “Cove of More”. You have responded to the sound of His Voice. You have complete freedom to come and go as you please. You can return to the Land of Shoulds and Oughts, if you wish, but the more you come to the Cove of More, you will become less settled in the Land.
When you are ready, look and go. Know that on your journey, you will meet others who have gone before you and have left the Land of Shoulds and Oughts. Learn from them. You will also encounter those who have recently left the Land. Be gracious. Be honoring.
Refrain from should and oughts, because like you – they are on their own journey and are responding to The Voice.
So, love. Be honorable. Be gracious. That is who you are.
Listen to The Voice and go when you are ready.
Peace to you.”
Signed,
The Former Mayor of the Land of Shoulds and Oughts.
PS – it will be nice to meet you, fellow traveler. And please put this note back for the others who will come.